Firstly, before I get into anything else, I just finished watching the movie 127 Hours.
Oh.My.Word.
Needless to say, I am now watching Land Before Time.
I spent half the time wincing, grinding my teeth, and covering my eyes with my pillow… but then all of a sudden it’s done! and you feel relief wash over you. It is my own fault, I’ve wanted to see it and since I’m house/dog sitting this week I decided to rent and watch it. It is a good movie, I thought. It’s just very intense, people.
On the subject of movies... what I was going to talk about was something opposite of a movie like 127 Hours. Chick flicks actually. Weird? Yes. (hey, when blogging inspiration strikes I better grab it) You know though, those movies that always are so predictable, boy meets girls, they fall in love, something happens between them, but in the end they end up back together. It is where the guy tells the girls every single thing she wants to hear, he is sweet, charming, dashing good looks, the perfect guy. I really have to be real here, I’m not a huge expert on chick flicks, I mean I'm the one who picks out a movie about a guy having to cut his own arm off.
I was thinking about them the other day, and happened to discuss it with my sister, and thought about girls I have talked to, and it seems to me that chick flicks give girls and unrealistic expectations of guys. Now, I’m not like a crazy extremist or anything, and I’m not really saying they are bad. I myself really enjoy a couple, A Walk to Remember and the Notebook always gives me those warm fuzzies inside. BUT, I believe they have to be had in moderation. Maybe I’m being ridiculous, but hey it’s my blog I’m allowed. But I know it’s been true of me at least, you watch those kinds of movies and you have this wishful expectation of a guy that doesn’t even exist. Now, on the flipside of this, I’m not one of those girls that hates every guy in the whole world, is anti-guy, and thinks they are all a bunch of creeps and jerks. I personally think that is a silly attitude. I know several great gentleman, and some of those being members of my family. I just know that those kinds of movies portray these guys that really aren’t….normal.(maybe not everyone one, again I’m not an expert) I honestly feel sorry for some guys, there are these girls with all these expectations that no every day guy can fulfill. With that, let me say that I’m NOT saying that since there are no perfect guys out there, that that means you can just settle for any ole guy…I’m all for being picky. By all means, look for your Mr Darcy…or whoever. Just don’t expect him to be perfect, and to always do just the right thing to you, tell what you always want to hear. Give the poor guys a break, I’ve been friends with guys and they just tend to be clueless… :] I think it can be the same way in books, and that is probably more for me than anything. I love to read, not that I read ‘romance novels’ but it doesn’t really matter if it is a murder/mystery, or whatever you are going to have some romance. Anyway, I know most of yall out there are married ladies, but this was just something I was thinking about the other day.
Again, I’m not saying go into your movie cabinet and chunk out all your chick flicks, it is just something to think about I guess. I mean, I may not be the best to listen to…I mean, as I mentioned I do watch movies about a guy who has to cut his arm off and all.
Ha.
Speaking all of these such things, as I mentioned before I’m house/dog sitting…and you know the more I do it, the more I realize how much I just do not want to live alone. Coming back to an empty house gets old, and boring. At least I have Nelly to keep me company…she is always super ecstatic to see me when I walk in the door. Don’t even get me started on cooking for myself, I. hate. It. I haven’t really learned the art of it I guess, I cook something and make myself enough to last me a week. So I really eat lots of corn dogs…grilled cheese…PB&J, oh and pickles. Does anyone feel sorry for me yet?
Well, these are my Monday night blunderings. I think I’ll finish Land before Time now…I should probably proof read this before I post it…but, I never do…so why start now? Yall just get the raw copy dontcha know.












